I recently read an article that discussed the benefits of optimism and the possible correlations between an optimistic outlook and physical health. Researchers measured physical health outcomes in a variety of different compromising health issues, including cancer, heart disease, infections, diabetes, kidney failure, and more. They found that better health was in fact tied to optimism – some studies even point to a longer life span in people who are generally optimistic!
Of course, I began considering what “optimism” really means to me, particularly during a rather tumultuous time in our country’s history. American psychologist Martin Seligman defines optimism as reacting to problems with a sense of confidence and high personal ability. Most people associate the word with reflecting a belief that the future will turn out for the best. Personally, I believe that optimism is less about being overtly happy in the face of adversity but rather remaining hopeful and determined that the adversity will pass to make way for better times.
So how can we stay optimistic when situations might tempt us to think negatively?
- Look for examples
All around us are stories of people who have managed to overcome tough times through an optimistic mindset – in books and movies, in your community, in your family and even in your workplace. Our world is full of people who have found optimism and hope in the face of hardship. Reading or learning about their perseverance is not just inspiring, it also opens the door to empathy and greater understanding of the scale of difficulties people may face.
- Change what your inner voice is telling you
When difficulties arise, it’s easy to fall into a negative cycle of thoughts, including despondency, blame, and feeling that you may always be prone to “bad things.” Instead of these thoughts, remind yourself of three important things: It’s not permanent, it’s not pervasive, and it’s not necessarily personal (taking all of the blame). As Seligman says: “Optimism matters because it produces persistence. Permanent explanations for bad events produce long lasting helplessness and temporary explanations produce resilience.”
- Socialize
Whether it is a happy hour with friends, a seminar or conference in your field of interest, or a support group, find others who can help you to feel less alone, allow you to voice your challenges, and offer an optimistic reply. The power of others who provide support can help to reinforce your own optimistic inner dialogue to weather the tough times.
- Move
I know I mention exercise often as a remedy for many situations, but the positive effects of exercise are virtually endless. Blood flow to the brain, decreased stress, and boosted endorphins are all great gains from exercising and wonderful ways to combat pessimism and negativity.
Ryan and I practice all of them, why don’t you consider as well? What are some of your tips to stay optimistic? I would love to hear from you!
Of course, although we bring an abundance of love and care with us to this “job,” I think few would disagree that being a caregiver is also a challenging job. Each of us has experienced “burnout,” a time when the emotions associated with caregiving surface and cause a person to become overwhelmed, or worse.

Are you a mentor? What does it mean to be a mentor? I would suggest that mentors come in all shapes and sizes; they can be a parent, a teacher, a coach or a volunteer who pours his/her time and expertise into helping young men and women develop to their fullest potential. Nobody succeeds on their own; every young person’s strength and resilience is fostered by those who have taught them they can do anything they put their mind to.
s I grew older and began working at the Institute, there were many professionals and para professionals who graciously offered me guidance and helped me to grow. Now, many years later, I consider it a privilege to be able to mentor the many young students and professionals who come to our school ready to begin a career in special education. In this way, I’m continuing to carry on Dr. Barber’s vision for the Barber National Institute by echoing her beliefs today.
“Come right back and be sure not to talk to strangers!”
(Note: As you can see, this challenge was designed in August, but you can easily adapt it for any month! Source: 
Very often, the determination of the severity of autism is based upon the child’s verbal skills. Recent research suggests that nearly half of children with autism who speak few or no words have cognitive skills that far exceed their verbal abilities. The findings call into question the widespread assumption that children with autism who have severe difficulty with speech also have low intelligence.


