New Year, New Resolution!

As I was thinking about my New Year’s resolution for 2017, I thought back to my resolution for 2016… to focus on and celebrate Ryan’s day-to-day accomplishments.
 
I am pleased to say, Yes, I was successful!
 
Every night at dinner, we talk about Ryan’s day. I always tell him that I am so proud of him… because I am! I tell him that he is such a successful worker and athlete. And most importantly he is a person who does acts of kindness. It has become a wonderful reminder of positivity to our daily routine.
 
I wasn’t certain how I could top this resolution. Then it occurred to me, I don’t have to! So, for 2017, my resolution is continue in this new practice! Not sure if I am adding anything but still have a few days to consider… 🙂
~ Maureen

 

Last week, I decided to tackle the four boxes of paperwork that had been relegated to a corner of my office since my file cabinet fell apart. I, like many moms, saved Ryan’s papers, reports, classroom assignments, and report cards going back to Pre-School. I even had his art projects from his days in Happy Hearts Toddler Childcare! My initial reaction was, “Some of these papers are 20 years old; why should I be saving them?” However, as I began reading, I was enthralled by the stories that were unfolding before me. So many of these moments had been forgotten, it was almost like reading a book. Some were happy, some were sad, but by the time I finished reading his 12th grade file I was thoroughly pleased and proud of Ryan and the way his story has evolved.

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So often, I am asked about Ryan’s future. This is a worry of all parents, but especially for parents of children with disabilities. It’s very easy to allow these concerns to overshadow the achievements and successes that your child experiences. So I decided that for my New Year’s resolution I would take a moment every day to celebrate how far Ryan has come. No, I’m not going to stop planning for the future; but I am going to focus on his day-to-day accomplishments as well, feeling grateful that he is able to achieve so much and has been blessed with such an outstanding (albeit ever-changing) team since the beginning, helping to make his dreams come true.

I encourage you to find time in the coming year to pause and celebrate your child’s successes, too. Happy 2015!

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