I decided to do my post today instead of tomorrow because today is “Spread the Word to End the Word” day, a day dedicated to eliminating the use of the R-word. Last year, I talked about what led up to creation of the day, so today I thought I would focus on some stories that were posted on the official site. To me, they spoke to the significance of why we must work to change people’s perception and language about children and adults who are differently abled. There are many stories listed, but I found these to be especially poignant. See what you think:
“I began my involvement with Special Olympics Southern California over three years ago and began teaching early childhood Special Education to children with Autism Spectrum Disorder for what will soon be two years. These little ones have become the grace and teachers in my life. In years past and up to present day, I cringe every time someone uses the “R-Word”. It is such a downgrade and so extremely hurtful for the individuals who have changed my life. Therefore, every time I hear the “R-word”, I ask the person to think about what they have just said. I tell them my story and who this word affects. How it gives any individual with special needs such a negative connotation. How it is not a funny slang word, but offensive and demeaning. How by speaking kindly of others could give hope for a more positive future, and an end to the R-word.”
“I am a camp counselor at a summer camp for children and young adults with disabilities. To me they are the smartest, happiest people. It breaks my heart to hear of stories they tell me about people who call them names or bully them. I have banned using the R-word in my dorm room. Words hurt remember a human is a human despite a disability or culture. “The only disability In life is a bad attitude” – Scott Hamiliton. Get to know people with disabilities you will see that they are some of the most inspiring people ever.”
Read these and more here.
Do you have a story that you wish to share with us? I would love to hear it!
“I began my involvement with Special Olympics Southern California over three years ago and began teaching early childhood Special Education to children with Autism Spectrum Disorder for what will soon be two years. These little ones have become the grace and teachers in my life. In years past and up to present day, I cringe every time someone uses the “R-Word”. It is such a downgrade and so extremely hurtful for the individuals who have changed my life. Therefore, every time I hear the “R-word”, I ask the person to think about what they have just said. I tell them my story and who this word affects. How it gives any individual with special needs such a negative connotation. How it is not a funny slang word, but offensive and demeaning. How by speaking kindly of others could give hope for a more positive future, and an end to the R-word.”
We invite community leaders to join us and read their favorite Dr. Seuss book. In addition, each day we have a special theme, such as Red Shirt Day, Crazy Hair Day, or even Crazy Socks Day! The children and staff “love” the opportunity to dress up!
His last book, What Pet Should I Get?, was just published last year, nearly two decades after his death. Dr. Seuss knew how to make learning to read an adventure. In this day of high technology, X-Boxes, and iPhones, we shouldn’t forget about the enjoyment you can get form simply reading a book… or reading a book to your child!
While I certainly knew a great deal about the history of Autism, reading it in its entirety was another experience. This book actually conveys the faces and the struggles of all the moms and dads who refused to accept an institution as the only opportunity for their child. We learn how in the 1950s, the medical community blamed “refrigerator mothers” for causing Autism. Refusing to accept this, parents advocated for scientists to delve deeper into the causes and treatments for Autism. Certainly, the advancements we see today can be attributed to the determination and persistence of these parents, even in the face of adversity.




Scientists and researchers are constantly uncovering more information related to autism, offering insights into the origins, possible causes and even at times potential cures. I come across dozens of articles on a weekly basis, some of which seem more important than others. I thought I would share stories that caught my eye on a monthly basis.
e considered me *that* parent at one time. What does *that* parent look like?
Ryan’s first visit went well and I knew I had made the right selection. We kept our twice a year schedule and over the years got to know Dr. Garcia and his staff very well. There were never issues, except one morning when Ryan was about seven years old. We had a challenging morning, and Ryan was agitated. I didn’t want to cancel the appointment at the last minute, so we went and I alerted Dr. Garcia of our difficulties. The appointment went fine, until… Dr. Garcia had his fingers in Ryan’s mouth for the examination and Ryan closed his mouth – hard! I think that action surprised Dr. Garcia more than it hurt him, however I was embarrassed and displeased with Ryan’s actions. That afternoon, Ryan and I discussed his behavior: why he did what he did, and what would be the consequence. Ryan decided he wanted to write a note of apology to Dr. Garcia. He did and we delivered it to his office the next day and apologized.
