As yesterday was World Poetry Day, I thought I would share a poem about Ryan. I hope you enjoy! I smiled thinking back to memories of days gone by.
~ Maureen
If you knew me…
You would know that the first word I said was when I was 9 months old. It was “light,” and I pointed at the kitchen light
You would know that I was diagnosed with autism at age 2 ½
You would know I loved to push a toy sweeper everywhere. I had 3!
You would know I enjoyed high places and made Mom nervous when I tried to jump off
You would know I would visit Aunt Tootie (Dr. Barber) and she would give me the special crackers she kept just for me
You would know I twirl my fingers as a calming behavior
You would know that I like structure and following a routine
You would know that I spent hundreds of hours in therapy to be who I am today
You would know that I think in concrete terms and get baffled by the abstract
But also …
You would know that I have a job – two, actually!
You would know I enjoy sports of nearly every kind – running, skiing, golf, swimming, racquetball, and even more!
You would know I have “guy’s night out” on Sundays with my best friend, Bryant
You would know I love my family, my friends, and am so thankful to people who have helped me along the way
You would know that I am Ryan, and no matter what autism means or doesn’t mean, I’m “being the best me I can be” – something my Mom asks me to do all the time!
I hope that in reading this, you understand that a child is so much more than his behaviors… have faith, as I do, that your cup is half full and know that Ryan is still evolving into being the “best he can be” each and every day!


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“I began my involvement with Special Olympics Southern California over three years ago and began teaching early childhood Special Education to children with Autism Spectrum Disorder for what will soon be two years. These little ones have become the grace and teachers in my life. In years past and up to present day, I cringe every time someone uses the “R-Word”. It is such a downgrade and so extremely hurtful for the individuals who have changed my life. Therefore, every time I hear the “R-word”, I ask the person to think about what they have just said. I tell them my story and who this word affects. How it gives any individual with special needs such a negative connotation. How it is not a funny slang word, but offensive and demeaning. How by speaking kindly of others could give hope for a more positive future, and an end to the R-word.”
We invite community leaders to join us and read their favorite Dr. Seuss book. In addition, each day we have a special theme, such as Red Shirt Day, Crazy Hair Day, or even Crazy Socks Day! The children and staff “love” the opportunity to dress up!
His last book, What Pet Should I Get?, was just published last year, nearly two decades after his death. Dr. Seuss knew how to make learning to read an adventure. In this day of high technology, X-Boxes, and iPhones, we shouldn’t forget about the enjoyment you can get form simply reading a book… or reading a book to your child!
While I certainly knew a great deal about the history of Autism, reading it in its entirety was another experience. This book actually conveys the faces and the struggles of all the moms and dads who refused to accept an institution as the only opportunity for their child. We learn how in the 1950s, the medical community blamed “refrigerator mothers” for causing Autism. Refusing to accept this, parents advocated for scientists to delve deeper into the causes and treatments for Autism. Certainly, the advancements we see today can be attributed to the determination and persistence of these parents, even in the face of adversity.



