All About Autism

Oh my goodness! Ryan turns 24 tomorrow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yes, this is difficult for me to truly believe and accept  — 24 years have passed since he came home from the hospital!

I still remember it like it was yesterday… We were living in North East and, of course, we were in the midst of a snow storm.

I recall turning up the heat to make sure that his bedroom was warm.  My brother, Joe, who lived next door came by and said that the house felt like a steam room. I turned the heat down, needless to say!

Jeanne and Dianne came out to assist with his first bath. Dianne, the oldest in her family of 12, had lots of experience with bathing babies.  So I entreated her to help – everything was so new to me! We even did a video of “Ryan’s first bath” which I still have today.

In a blink of an eye, the next 23 years have passed. There have been peaks and valleys in this journey but I am truly proud of Ryan’s many successes. He has had a GREAT 2017!

Between working at Bello’s and BNI, exercising at LECOM, skiing at Holiday Valley in the winters and golfing at Kahkwa in the summers, I am trying to keep up with him!

As I look back over the years, I know that I have so much to be grateful for: family, friends, outstanding staff, and the Erie community that welcomes children with disabilities.

And the future???? My expectations continue to be high and who knows what the future will bring.  He has accomplished much more than even I would have dreamed!

I continue to believe that nothing is impossible and as Audrey Hepburn so simply said, “the word itself says I’m possible!”

Thanksgiving is one of my favorite holidays; no, not because of the turkey and stuffing! This holiday provides the opportunity to do some soul-searching and reflect upon what I’m grateful for. Moreover, this special time of year, when people go out of their way to be a little bit kinder and warmer, is a rejuvenating reminder of what we are grateful for all year long.

This year, I focused on how grateful I am for:

• A supportive family, through the ups and downs of life
• Ryan, who has helped me to grow in so many ways and has taught me to look at my glass as always “half full” and never “half empty”
• Good health that allows me to keep up with my 23 year old son!
• The creative, committed, enthusiastic, loyal staff members who work with our children, adults, and their families
• An organization that is always striving to improve the lives of children and adults with disabilities through the latest technology, research, programming, and training
• The children and adults themselves, who remind me every day that life is precious

Whether with a gratitude journal or in daily meditations, pausing to give thanks for even the smallest things on a regular basis can have a big impact in your mental health and overall happiness. I’ve started my gratitude journal for the year and I can’t wait to see where it takes me!

As I looked for a quote to share today, I was overwhelmed by choices and thought: why choose only one? I hope you have a wonderful holiday!

With Thanksgiving just around the corner, I was thinking about some of the tips that I’ve learned over the years to make the holiday a pleasant one for you, your child, and your family!

• As you plan your holiday meal, be sure to include items that you know your child enjoys. Perhaps that means even a special side just for him/her.
• Keep appetizers either under cover or not readily available. Ryan has his favorite appetizers and, if given the opportunity, will dine on those versus waiting for dinner.
• Keep the dinner short and sweet! Your child will likely not be able to sit at the table for an extended period of time.
• Consider a visual schedule to encourage your child to eat slowly. This is one I always used with Ryan, and today I encourage him to put his fork down after each bite and count to ten!
• Allow your child time to be in a quiet space prior to dinner; he or she may want to watch a movie on the iPad, play with a favorite toy, or, as Ryan says, “Do preferred activities!”
• Catch your child being “good.” I constantly reinforce Ryan for utilizing manners, eating slowly, and engaging in conversation with guests.
• If your child does exhibit behavioral challenges, prepare your guests. Let them know how you handle disruptions and encourage them to follow your lead.
• Create a social story for the day. Autism Speaks has a great social story available for download here.

We have a very low key Thanksgiving: we spend the morning at LECOM, and in the afternoon we decorate for Christmas. A local restaurant provides take-out, which takes away the stress of the day and allows me to truly enjoy the holiday!

Happy Thanksgiving to all!

Since its premiere in September, I have often been asked the question: “What do you think of the TV show, ‘The Good Doctor?’”

If you don’t watch much television, “the Good Doctor” is about a surgical resident with autism who balances medical brilliance with interpersonal challenges. More popular than the TV hits “NICS” and “This Is Us,” “the Good Doctor” has 17.5 million total viewers every episode – that’s a lot of people!

Answering the question of what I think about the show is a tricky one. As I always say, if you’ve met one person with autism, you’ve met one person with autism. That is to say, each person with autism has his or her unique strengths and challenges. As autism is a spectrum disorder, we have many individuals who struggle with intellectual limitations, social interactions, and repetitive behaviors; and yet, we have individuals, like character Dr. Shaun Murphey, who are highly skilled, even brilliant, and would be considered on the “savant” end of the spectrum.

I’m pleased to see that a character with a disability has been accepted into mainstream television; however, my concern is that, although entertaining, the Good Doctor might lead the general public to believe that all persons with autism look and act like Dr. Murphey. And if that is the case, why should persons with autism require funding for supports and services? Dr. Murphy obviously does not require these services. However, for many persons with autism, they are essential.

Looking forward, I hope that we begin seeing characters on TV and in movies who reflect the wide range of abilities and characteristics of those with autism. Perhaps Dr. Murphey could treat a patient with moderate to severe autism; wouldn’t that be interesting?

As we anticipate World Kindness Day on Monday, November 13^th, I began thinking…

Initiated in 1997, this is a day set aside to focus on extending kindly acts towards others, without the expectation of anything in return. While it would be nice to say that every day should be World Kindness Day, the reality is that sometimes work, current events, and other personal challenges can get the best of us. Not to mention that as soon as we open the newspaper or turn on the television, we are confronted with everything from violence in the world to political debates that sometimes focus on the negative. We could certainly use an entire day dedicated to kindness!

Kindness Day isn’t only about volunteering in the community – it can also about the little gestures, expressions, and even thoughts of kindness, too.

Whether it is buying a coffee for a stranger in line or letting go of resentment, the mental and physical benefits of kindness, including healthier hearts, better aging, and improved relationships, should make us want to smile more and frown less. Not to mention, kindness is contagious!

Focusing on and noticing the good qualities in the world around us gives our moods a boost all by itself. And studies show that compliments amplify positivity; they not only deliver positive effects to others, but those effects bounce back on the person giving the compliment.

Since Ryan was a young child, I have tried to instill in him the importance of compliments and being kind to others. Sometimes, he goes overboard and will repeatedly thank you for helping him or doing something for him, but all in all I would rather he say it too many times than not enough.

I love hearing his compliment to me: “You’re the best mom ever!” Nothing brightens my day more!

If you are looking for some creative ways to be kind out in the community, Pinterest has a number of “Kindness Challenge” calendars that provide a wealth of ideas. Feel free to share any of your ideas or ways you plan to acknowledge World Kindness Day below!

Dressing up as a favorite superhero, trick-or-treating for goodies, and spending the evening with friends are just a few reasons why Halloween can be such a fun holiday for parents and kids alike. However, for many children with autism this night also has the potential to be a difficult and stressful time of year.

If you or someone you know has a child with special needs but still plans to trick-or-treat, here are some ideas to make sure everyone has a safe and fun Halloween:

– Flashlights: Ryan carried one to help him see in the dark/dim evening. It gave him a sense of comfort and some means of control.

– Practice: Try on the costume, including make up or masks, to make sure he/she is comfortable; walk the route you intend to take; and talk about what will happen after trick-or-treating. Predictability is key to helping children with autism feel safe and calm.

– Role play: Similar to practicing, role playing provides structure and outlines specific behavior for trick-or-treating. Halloween is also a great opportunity to reinforce good manners, such as waiting their turn to ring the doorbell, saying “Trick or Treat,” only taking one treat, and always saying “thank you” before leaving.

– Be aware of sensory triggers: Although Halloween decorations can be very entertaining, flashing lights or loud sounds may evoke unpleasant sensory reactions for your child.

– Know your limits: As soon as you see your child becoming over-stimulated or agitated, it’s time to go home.  It’s okay the end the evening earlier than planned.

– Be prepared: If your child is nonverbal or has difficulty communicating, it’s important to make sure that he or she wears an identification bracelet in the event that you are separated while trick-or-treating. Another idea is to create a “Trick-or -Treat” card explaining your child’s special needs and pass it out to houses on your intended route in advance of the evening. It’s a simple way to make everyone feel more comfortable.

Although Ryan hasn’t gone trick-or-treating in many years, he enjoys the Halloween ESO dance and has always enjoyed this holiday very much. That’s not to say that we haven’t used many of the tips above!

Any suggestions I may have missed? I would love to hear what has worked for your family!

Last week, we recognized World Mental Health Day, a day for global mental health education, awareness and advocacy against social stigma. Initiated in 1992, this important day is now acknowledged in more than 150 countries.

Mental health is impacted in myriad ways, from childhood through adulthood. Most recently, educational professionals and medical professionals alike have focused on the lasting impacts that trauma has on an individual throughout his/her development.

The Iceberg Theory explains that behaviors are often the result of deeper, unseen experiences and emotions. 

The statistics that have surfaced out of this research are startling, to say the least. At least 5 million children experience trauma each year; that is 1 out of every 4 students in the classroom. What defines trauma, however, may come as even more of a surprise: in addition to accidents and illness, traumatic experiences can arise out of living in poverty.

With an estimated 20% of all children in the United States living in poverty, the outgrowth of this could be profound. Worse, the effects of trauma are deep and lasting: it has been directly correlated to lower GPAs, decreased reading ability, attention/memory/cognition challenges and increased behavior problems.

In response, schools, child-care facilities and even community support organizations are coming together to bring informed teaching methods into these settings. Some of these tactics include:

• Establishing safety
• Expressing feelings and coping
• Behavior management
• Connecting to social supports

With 70% of mental disorders onset prior to the age of 25, the childhood and adolescent years are a critical window in which mental health can be addressed, and overall mental wellness can be promoted.

*Special thanks to Dr. Von Hof for her invaluable and insightful contributions to this blog!*

This past week, I attended a board meeting for PNC’s Grow Up Great. Grow Up Great is a $350 million, multi-year, bi-lingual initiative that began in 2004 to help prepare children from birth through age five for success in school and learning. Since its inception, more than 2 million children have benefited from early childhood programming through Grow Up Great. I am excited to share two of the major thrusts of our conversations.

Continuous Engagement:

What became apparent throughout a number of different topics is the focus on engagement of not only children but their families as well. Grow Up Great is looking for creative, exciting, and innovative ways to get teachers and parents working together to prepare children for school and beyond. Some stand-out initiatives include:

• Text-to-Talk Project
  • utilizes the creative curriculum, sends free texts to parents to increase the use of language at home
• Grow Up Great Lesson Center
  • Lessons are created by experts and are connected to standards
  • Videos and photos are embedded in the lesson to show how to teach the skill, as well as important vocabulary words and fully downloadable resources
  • Emphasis on inquiry learning
  • Some example lessons include: Animals, the 5 Senses, and outdoor classrooms

Additionally, Grow Up Great also has a Pinterest board available to families, which provides a wealth of information and resources. Overall, the goal is to establish communities of learners. An important consideration for this is how to increase family engagement, and what to do “in the moment” to enhance brain-building. Truly, children are ready to learn from the day they are born – they are innately curious and active learners. By integrating a sense of adventure and curiosity, active learning builds executive functioning skills that have far-reaching positive implications.

Funding:

Philadelphia’s controversial soda tax adds 1.5% per ounce to beverages with added sugar

The other interesting topic reviewed was the multitude of methods for funding Early Childhood Education, particularly on the local/municipal levels. The early childhood community has seen incremental increases in ECE but need something more substantive. Although, state ECE funding is up 47% over the past five years, funding five years ago was extremely limited.

• Some of the most active communities include:
  • Chicago – social investment bond (a contract with the public sector in which a commitment is made to pay for improved social outcomes that result in public sector savings)
  • Cincinnati & Dayton – passed a referendum vote to increase real estate taxes for ECE
  • Philadelphia – has implemented a soda tax for ECE, allowing it to provide universal Pre-K

I am so honored to serve on this prestigious board and be able to bring back to Erie the latest developments and cutting-edge practices in Early Childhood Education!

Scientists and researchers are constantly uncovering more information related to autism, offering insights into the origins, possible causes and even at times potential cures. I come across dozens of articles on a weekly basis, some of which seem more important than others. I thought I would share on a monthly basis stories that caught my eye.

~ Maureen

Autism in motion

Children with autism are often clumsy, physically awkward or uncoordinated. This understudied and nearly ubiquitous feature has researchers contemplating a new idea: Could motor problems be one source of autism’s social difficulties?

Read the full article here.

https://spectrumnews.org/features/deep-dive/autism-in-motion/

AUTISM AND HEALTH: A SPECIAL REPORT BY AUTISM SPEAKS

Frequent co-morbidities of autism include seizures, gastrointestinal disorders, sleep disturbances, eating and feeding challenges, attention deficit and hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), anxiety, depression, schizophrenia and bipolar disorder. These issues can extend across the life span. The purpose of this special report is to summarize the latest understanding of autism’s commonly associated physical and mental health conditions, including how best to identify, treat and in some cases prevent them to improve overall health and quality of life.

Read the full article here.

https://www.autismspeaks.org/sites/default/files/docs/facts_and_figures_report_final_v3.pdf

Heart rate may foretell autism features in infants

Babies with a family history of autism have heart rates that are unusually low and that respond aberrantly to speech sounds, according to a new study. Studies over the past two decades have shown that heart rate tracks with attention: An infant’s pulse slows briefly when she turns toward a compelling sight or sound and returns to baseline as she loses interest.

Read the full article here.

https://spectrumnews.org/news/heart-rate-may-foretell-autism-features-infants/

Tune in next month for an update on autism research!