There’s Nothin’ Better Than A Good Old Fashion’ Friend

The latest report released by the ????????CDC indicating one in 68 8-year- olds has Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) has everyone talking. This 30% increase since 2012 tells me that every elementary classroom probably has one child on the spectrum.  Looking back to Ryan’s preschool and elementary years in the mid-1990s this certainly was not the case.  Yes, there were children with ASD and significant cognitive challenges in public schools, but typically they were in special education classrooms.  Today, most children are included in regular education.

Even with a growing number of children with autism in our schools, I hear from many group fishparents who are concerned  that their child has few friends.  This is an issue that Ryan and I experienced throughout his educational career.  Children with ASD face many challenges including isolation from their peers.  Having friends to help them through difficult times can boost their self-esteem, enhance their social skills and protect against bullying.

As this is Autism Awareness Month I wanted to share my thoughts on how to be a friend to someone with autism.

As a parent I encourage you to:

  • Create a culture of acceptance within your family
  • Encourage your child to play with children who are different than he/she (culturally, differently abled)
  • Be proactive and initiate a playdate with a child with ASD.
  • Help a child with ASD by including him/her or simply hanging out one-on-one watching how you interact with people will help the child learn the rules for friendship and make it easier to develop friendships with others.

As we continue to celebrate Autism Awareness Month let’s establish a goal of creating and nurturing new friendships with people with ASD.

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