Dressing up as a favorite superhero, trick-or-treating for goodies, and spending the evening with friends are just a few reasons why Halloween can be such a fun holiday for parents and children alike. However, for many children with autism this night also has the potential to be a difficult and stressful time of year.  

If you or someone you know has a child with special needs but still plans to trick-or-treat, here are some ideas to make sure everyone has a safe and fun Halloween. Many of them I implemented when Ryan was a trick or treater, and they really worked.   

– Practice: Try on the costume, including make up or masks, to make sure he/she is comfortable; walk the route you intend to take; and talk about what will happen after trick-or-treating. Predictability is key to helping children with autism feel safe and calm.  

– Role play: Similar to practicing, role playing provides structure and outlines specific behavior for trick-or-treating. Halloween is also a great opportunity to reinforce good manners, such as waiting their turn to ring the doorbell, saying “Trick or Treat,” only taking one treat, and always saying “thank you” before leaving.  

– Be aware of sensory triggers: Although Halloween decorations can be very entertaining, flashing lights or loud sounds may evoke unpleasant sensory reactions for your child.  

– Flashlights: Ryan carried one to help him see in the dark/dim evening. It gave him a sense of comfort and some means of control.  

– Know your limits: As soon as you see your child becoming over-stimulated or agitated, it’s time to go home.  It’s okay to end the evening earlier than planned.  

– Pass Out Candy: This can be a fun alternative for the child who might find it too stressful to go door to door.   

Over the years, Ryan was most successful when we went to the homes of our friends, he felt comfortable but still could “show off” his costume.  Always ask yourself, will my child truly enjoy this, or will I?  Let that answer be your guide in what you choose to do and not do this Halloween.